Over 20 years ago, I took a small but life-changing step—I started delegating. At the time, it felt awkward. I didn’t believe I was worth it, and honestly, I was a little ashamed to admit I had someone else clean my condo or cut my lawn. But something shifted when I realized that the people I hired, whether they were housekeepers or landscapers, had their own expertise. When their cars needed fixing, they trusted me with what I was great at. It clicked for me: I was investing in myself, freeing up my time to focus on what truly mattered, while also helping others do what they excelled at.
Mastering Your Ultimate Goals: A Closer Look At Unstoppable Success
In my work with clients and in pursuing my own ambitions, I've often encountered goals that, while seemingly precise and worthwhile—like hitting a certain bank balance or owning a specific size house—end up feeling unfulfilled, or even worse, unfulfilling. It's a...
Unlock Your Hidden Power: Achieve Unstoppable Success After 5 PM
When most people think of a hard day’s work, they imagine the grind of a full workday—facing deadlines, attending meetings, handling difficult clients, and navigating office politics. It’s a long day, no doubt about it. But here’s a truth that few are willing to...
The Tale of Two Business Owners: The Overwhelmed vs. the SMART Entrepreneur
In the world of entrepreneurship, two figures stand in stark contrast: the Overwhelmed Business Owner and the SMART Business Owner. Their stories are a compelling study of choices, consequences, and the art of finding balance in the tumultuous landscape of business....
The Hidden Power of Relaxation
Running a business has taught me many valuable lessons, and while the allure of constant hustle is enticing, it's not the only strategy of being successful in the game of life. There’s an unsung hero that is often overlooked: relaxation. Today, I want to share how...
Dear Overwhelmed Dad: A Guide to Balancing Life, Marriage, Business, Time, and Fatherhood
Dear Overwhelmed Dads, Almost a decade ago, I was where many of you might be right now: juggling the demands of a thriving business, finding my footing in the early days of marriage, and eagerly waiting for the birth of my first son. The weight of it all led me to a...
Sunrise Reflections: Navigating the Journey of Fatherhood
I've seen my share of sunrises, each marking the start of new challenges and opportunities. Yet, the most profound moments? The ones that really hit home? They happen when I'm with my family. Every morning, my home is filled with the unmistakable sounds of youth. The...
Wasting More Than Half of My Life Waiting for the Weekend
Many of us are familiar with the saying, "Life is what happens when you're busy making other plans." But it wasn't until I looked at my week through percentages that this phrase took on a deeper, more personal meaning. The Monday Blues – 14% of My Life Like many dads,...
The Unexpected Lessons of Life’s Detours: Wisdom for Dads on the Fast Track
When you think of delayed flights, the immediate feelings that come to mind might be frustration, disappointment, or even anger. But during a recent flight that faced unforeseen challenges, I unearthed a treasure trove of lessons. Lessons that are especially poignant...
First Day at the Beach: A Decision That Changed Everything
Eight years ago, I found myself on the edge of a pivotal decision, one that might seem trivial to many but meant the world to me and, little did I know, would shape my life's perspective for years to come. Do I take a day off work, a mere 24 hours, to witness my son,...